تقدیر مردان الفارسية 1400

Complexity means the past. Because we all have a past, we also have complexes. How have you understood your parents? Your understanding of your father forms the father complex and your understanding of your mother forms the mother complex in you. The father and mother complex are two main elements that play a serious role in your subconscious and completely dominate your life. It doesn't matter how old you are or whether you are the head of a big company or in any other position. Jung says about the complex: Nowadays, everyone knows that a person has a complex. What is not yet well understood is that knots can also have snakes. When a child reaches adulthood (puberty and the post-puberty years up to the age of twenties), parents should no longer try to appear ideal. When parents want to show themselves as ideal people, they implicitly devalue the position of the child. At this age, the father complex and the mother complex usually become "self-aware" and the person separates from his real parents to some extent. But in this process, the role of complexes should not be underestimated; Each of the complexes gives permission to take steps towards separation from parents and prevents taking other steps. If a person is never allowed to leave and separate from his parents, or if he is forbidden to think differently from his father, then he will experience certain aspects of complexes. In such a situation, a young girl or boy is forced to fight with his parents, because otherwise he cannot achieve separation from them and freedom. Sometimes, even when parents do not allow their child to separate from them, it is possible for a person to receive from others what his parents did not give him and in this way achieve a hidden independence. But when the direct and obvious ways of achieving independence are closed and one is forced to achieve it covertly, some of the ego's power is depleted. Some young girls and boys, contrary to the influence of complexes, easily satisfy their strong desire for independence. The meaning of independence is to establish a balance between the needs and requirements of our lives and those around us, father, mother, teachers, and the society in which we live.